Common questions

Can I join if I don't live in western Massachusetts?

Yes! Mass Match is also available in neighboring communities of MA, NY, CT, NH, VT and RI.

Why are Mass Match member plans yearly?

We've found that with yearly plans, all members can rest assured that their matches are equally committed to finding the right one. As a member, you'll have time to go slowly without pressure — we will be matching you with new Mass Matchers as they join.

What if I make or made a mistake on the signup application?

Don't worry. Lanie, your matchmaker, will review it with you and you will choose what information your matches will see.

Who are Mass Matchers?

Mass Match members represent the wonderful diversity of our country. We have no niche and we welcome everyone. Mass Matchers are proactive, are who they say they are, and want to meet someone.

Is there a 50/50 balance of women to men? Most dating and matchmaking services aim for, but don't maintain a perfect balance. Our member ratio skews female (as does the unmarried population of New England), but we still strive for a 50/50 balance with our advertising.

In our 20+ years, Lanie has helped countless members of all ages, and with a wide variety of academic backgrounds, politics, ethnicities, and religions find the right one. Find examples in Success Stories and Lanie's Corner.

Most dating and matchmaking services aim for, but don't maintain a perfect balance. Our member ratio skews female, but we always have both male and female active members and we strive for a 50/50 balance with our advertising. There are more single women than men in New England so a perfect balance If you have any questions before you join, please contact Lanie.

What do you mean by coaching?

Our service is personalized, so this varies from person to person and by membership plan. Depending on your needs and experience, coaching may include the following and more:

• Advice on what to do on your first date with a match.
• Describing you and your best qualities in advance to another member you'll be matched with.
• Working with you to create a self-description that your matches will see.
• Suggestions for your photo.
• Debriefing before and after dates (*with our Enhanced plan).

COVID-19 and the Mass Match Community

• A Quick Tip For Dating During The Pandemic

• Special Message from Lanie

• Coffee and FaceTime, How Members Are Adjusting

• Virtual Dating Tips For Mass Matchers

• Thriving In Quarantine - Anne and Rich

I have more questions, can I speak to someone?

Sure. For additional answers to your questions, please call us:

413.665.3218