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LOCAL. PRIVATE. AFFORDABLE.
We welcome all singles in western MA and neighboring communities.

"Best local dating service" three years in a row!
We're proud to have won Best Local Dating Service in the 2011 & 2010 & 2012 "Best of the Valley" reader polls.

Accountability - No Fake Members!
With free dating sites, it is estimated that at least 10 percent of new accounts created each day are from scammers. And, a recent study shows married people posing as singles are nearly 6 times as likely as actual singles to visit online dating sites to find a serious relationship.

That's why you need a personal, private and affordable matchmaking service where people are who they say they are.

Private Profiles & Photos

Your profile & photo can only be viewed by members that our matchmaker has personally matched with you.

Who Are Mass Matchers?
They are singles from 20's-80's. With over half the adult population single for the first time in history, it is, oddly, ever more difficult to find the right person.

Where Are Mass Matchers From?
Folks from Western MA and neighboring communities in parts of NY, CT, NH and VT who love my prices and my personal approach.

WE WELCOME ALL SINGLES -- STRAIGHT AND GAY!

We Want to Find You The Right One, Not Just Anyone

Because Bud and I met though a dating service and got married, we want to provide the folks in our area a local, respectful and very affordable way to meet that special someone too! With our caring and personal support and coaching, we can help you bring a happy and satisfying relationship into your life. We believe that bringing people together by fostering the beginnings of healthy romantic relationships is an important individual and community service. We want to bring as many people together in Western Mass as possible, and NOW is a wonderful time to begin.
We Are:
  • Personal
  • Local
  • Discreet
And We:
  • Coach
  • Operate with care and integrity

Ask The Matchmaker

If you would like your dating question to appear on "Ask the Matchmaker" Click Here (Your real name will not be used)

I really like "Tim" and haven't heard from him in two weeks now. I'm worried that he's another guy who I like who doesn't like me. Should I call him and let him know I'm interested or would that be too forward? Should I wait for him to call me? I'm very attracted to him and thought that we had a lot in common. I could easily love "Tim" and feel worried that I could be possibly lettting another love slip out of my life. I am worried about making the wrong move after so much bad luck and I am soooo ready to meet someone special and get engaged by the end of the year. I'm hoping the year ends better than it started.
Joanie in Springfield, Ma

Hi Joanie,
Please, you must not come from a desperate place. Even I can pick up on it. Remember what you have to offer and don't get fixated on another's opinion of you. If there is something fun you can do with "Tim," sure, it is okay to give him a call. Or maybe you need him to help you with something&ellipse;

But the important thing is your attitude and confidence. You will be fine even if he isn't interested in you. Go rent a movie like Mona Lisa Smile and get in touch with your feminine power.

Nothing is more a turn-off than a sense of desperation, and having an agenda for getting engaged or married by a certain time is not healthy and will backfire. Love doesn't fit into a time - table.

Go about your life with confidence, believe that it will happen when the time is ripe....but make sure you are involved in activities you enjoy and have friends that are fun to be with. And that will make you more attractive to others.
Take Care,

Lanie

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Hi Lanie,
I just wanted to let you know that Greg and I are going to be getting married in July. I wanted to thank you for introducing us.

Robin, Springfield Ma
Lanie, I would have paid you double if I had known I would meet my bride."
Married April 2012, Agawam Ma

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In March I had met Monica for dinner after we connected through Mass Match and immediately hit it off. I am very happy to say that on October 28th, 2005 we were married and life could not be better. Thank you for your service.
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When I describe Mass Match to my friends I use words like integrity, professionalism, understanding, and always seeking ways to improve the service. I feel fortunate to have this service available as another way to meet people
David, 58, Lenox Ma
I met someone wonderful through your fine service. Lanie's moral support and encouragement helped me during the dating process. I have been having a wonderful time since I've met him. Thank you, Lanie!
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